Wednesday, January 30, 2008

An International Affair


In late December I was sitting in the Atlanta airport, waiting for my flight to San Antonio (to kick off the new year). As I usually do in Atlanta, I go to terminal B and get a turkey panini form the Atlanta Bread Co. It's pretty much my favorite sandwich and they don't have it in New Mexico so its a must.
I go back to terminal C and eat my sandwich at the gate i'll be leaving from. I look around and as usual there's not a whole lot of people there 3 hours before the flight, just the occasional person with a long layover. There's army boy sitting next to his green duffle bad, the little three-year-old playing on the floor. The teenage girl scrubbed out in sweatpants falling asleep on the bench, the business man on his blackberry,the cute old woman with matching everything, and then there was something striking that is not so common in the Atlanta airport. Sitting right across from me was a very tall, blonde, dark skinned muscular man with the brightest blue eyes that I had ever seen. I totally didn't know what to think of him, he had kind of an exotic look and seemed to be a little puzzled.
There was something definitely intriguing about this guy. I sat there talking on my phone looking back from time to time trying to figure out what it was. 45 minutes passes and I'm still talking on my phone, but i've noticed now he's been looking over here for quite some time. A few minutes later I notice this guy glancing over again, we played the glance over and pretend we never saw each other game for a bout 10 minutes. Well he then decides to get up, and right as I saw him come over my way, as though he was passing by, he stops right in front of me and in the most intriguing accent i've ever heard, asks me if it might be ok to borrow my phone as he is not from here. Of course I let him borrow my phone, he sat next to me now, and i couldn't help but speculate what his story could be. Well he only talks for a minute and leaves his friend a message saying his flight was delayed and he got to the states a day later than he expected.
At this point we start to exchange conversation, mostly small talk. It was quite a bit awkward at first because he looked me straight in the eyes as he talked and was sitting right next to me. (But maybe it's common to invade people's personal space where he comes from?) Ah yes, and that was the question I had.
"I'm from South Africa. I've lived there all my life. I own a safari business, it's what actually brings me to the states. Every year from January to April I come out here to market my company."
We continued to talk for the next two hours laughing and smiling at all the neat cultural differences as well as similarities we had.
"I'm a professional hunter and outfitter. I have a resort on 200,000 acres of land where I help people hunt the great 5." (let me just say that I didn't know much about South Africa before I met him, but after our lengthy conversation about our lives, (it felt as though i'd been there)he continued to show me pictures and talk about his family and then his goals and what he wants from life.
You could tell by the look in his eye, he was a genuine guy with almost a chivalrous demeanor. We found out we both were headed to San Antonio and were quite delighted to have the company and conversation on the way. As our hours of an international affair concluded, he invited me to Africa, and said if I ever wanted to come he would personally take me on a safari. With that we exited the plane and headed down to baggage.
I was sitting in the claim area after having realized my luggage was in Atlanta and wouldn't be here until the next flight arrived.
Hannes(this was his name) was waiting for his friend to pick him up. He came over several times to make sure I was alright waiting by myself or to see if I needed a ride. I assured him I was fine and that he have safe travels while here abroad. His friend came over and he introduced us and then we said our good byes and they walked away. Twenty minutes later Hannes returns to make sure I'm ok and that I'm on my way. As I'm still sitting there he seemed concerned and walked back over. I assured him again I was definitely ok and my luggage would be coming soon. So we said our goodbyes and he walked back to his friend. Well this series events happened a few more times until I was on my way and he saw that I had left safely.
Is it possible to meet a complete stranger from accross the world who has nothing but the most honorable intentions? Someone who seems so genuine and chivalrous...so counter culture of the fast paced, all about me, crazy day-to-day American life? That I cannot conclude seeing how it is nearly impossible to judge the true intentions of another. But what I did find quite amusing in this adventure was that two complete strangers from opposite sides of the world can relate to eachother over a pleasant conversation sharing stories of their lives.

Monday, January 28, 2008

"Good Night, and Good Luck."


I can feel the cold brisk air sending chills up my back as I get into my car. I drive along the foothills of the mountains, the moon is shining bright over the unending lights. As i drive I can't help but remember the times...

....I can't get the thoughts out of my mind. I roll my windows down to remember the bitter cold reality. The tip of my nose turns pink with the frost settling in. I drive, keep on driving, all I know to do is to drive. I'm trying to drive the feeling of cold away. With no avail. I see the picture. The smile on your face and the glistening in her eyes. I continue to drive, the city lights have faded and the moon is brighter then ever. I feel my stomach sink and a knot in my throat begin to grow. My fingers have begun to turn numb and the feeling of not being able to feel has taken place as my relief. I'm heading down an uncertain road and all I can mutter under my breath in the brisk lonesome dark is Edward R. Murrow's famous words -"Good Night, and Good Luck."

Thoughts of Today


So I have some random thoughts. Those of you that know me....you guys know that when I was little, I had two aspirations. 1. Grow up and marry a big black guy named adrian 2. Grow up and be the first pink navy seal....Why a big black guy named adrian? And Since when is a navy seal dressed in pink? Ha. I guess we all grow up eventually. Anyways...I think there will always be something inside me that wants and longs to do something in the world that makes a difference. I have friends who are PJs who rescue hurt soldiers, a brother who is a reconnaissance marine that well Lord knows if I ever find out what they really do, a dad who flew F-14s and F-16s in the Navy back in the day and a mom totally devoted to ministering to women, making a difference daily. And here I am...No I'm not going to join the service, but I'm still goin to do my time. I'm a journalist and that's what I love. I love the truth, real people and real stories. I think that everyone has a story to tell and it's those stories that come back to impact lives in ways we could never imagine. So no I'm not going to be running around with an M16 or dressed in BDUs but hopefully I'll make it out there someday to tell a story...to share life with people who have gave up so much for a greater cause.

Sunday, January 27, 2008

Saturday Night at the Roadhouse

So tonight was a typical Saturday night at work- good tips, rude tables, servers who only look out for number 1 and somehow always have selective hearing, inconsiderate hostesses (you know the ones you have to tip out at the end of the night because they're rude to your guests, triple seat you, give you an incomplete party, seat your closed section, and totally disregard everything you say to them....), and then the managers who let you know that you pretty much killed their whole perfect world because they actually have to do their job like talk to a table because the kitchen didn't cook the steak right the first time. Ha ha I'm sure this isn't anything new to those of you who have had to walk this line before.
Anyways I can't decide what my favorite part of tonight was.... I liked the little host who is ALWAYS in the way and every time you say excuse me she just looks at you like a dumb deer staring straight at the on-coming headlights. (Well I guess I can't blame her, I mean they do have the unwritten code of disregarding everything that is said to them.)  I kind of liked that one server, you know the one who has been there forever and work is their whole life and entire world so they always make a point to  get all bent out of shape if you so much as do one thing less then perfect (severs like this beware: Irrational-bent-out-of-shape outbreaks might cause ulcer).  One that's always at the top of my list is the newly promoted manager, you know the one that runs a power trip just because they can (can't really blame that either....i mean after all they are no longer lowlife servers...they're a MANAGER.) Anyways there are always good times like these that can be elaborated on but why bore you with the typical incidents...its the not-so-typical that are entertaining.
How about the intoxicated military guy who grabs your arm and tries to kiss you. Or there's the dirty man who puts 6 one-hundred dollar bills on the table to bribe you, the lowlife server to please an old man. (I mean cause after all if you're a server, you must be down there with the strippers....)  Then again there is always the weird old cowboy who sits in your section just so he can stare at you and make a pass (i mean oh yeah....every server would just jump at the opportunity to get with an old dirty cowboy...)  Maybe the best one yet is the guy who tips you cause you're good at line-dancing, but his idea of a tip is a slap on the ass.  Needless to say didn't have anything to interesting tonight, just the occasional fat-ass who can't put down the fork, you know the one who asks for 5 refills of coke and then expects you to keep bringing the bread when they run out...like every 2 minutes.
Ha ha good times.  And you wonder why there are places like this???..Corporate America has made it good by capitalizing on lowlife servers to aid the fat-ass cause...but who can really complain? They profit off the guests getting fat, and we get tipped for it!

Saturday, January 26, 2008

Just Another Girl



I'm only amused until I'm unamused
Don't worry you won't be accused

Enjoy the adventures along the way
But love the misadventures every day.

I take the chance with many bets
Always living with no regrets

You see me riding that wake
In the summer at every lake.

Wear my jeans all ripped
With my Boston hat tipped.

I might get frisky
But I stay away from that whisky.

Don't dance on bars
Just under the stars.

Show me your friends
I'll show you your future.

Love with all you got
Don't waste it on a lot.

Bring your best game
And you won't leave with shame.

Look for the best
Don't settle for less.

If you're going to leave
Go before I cleave.

Take the chance
It might let you dance.

Have some respect
But do not neglect.

Why do you know me?
Why don't you show me?

Love me, hate me
Just as long as you feel me.

I'm not your booty call…
I'm firm and standing tall

Don't waste my time
I'll drop you like a dime.

I'm making the mile
I'm leaving this pile.

I'm gonna do it all
I may not hear you call.

You think you know me, but you don't.
Try and figure me out and you won 't.